BY ODESSA CHRISTIANA

The month of February brings a sense of romance and lofty ideals of how to express your love. Grocery store aisles lined with heart-shaped everything, beautifully wrapped packages of candy, troves of roses beckoning to be purchased for your lover. It’s quite sensational, isn’t it?

Although being showered with gifts can be a divine experience, there is something better. Something so extraordinary that it turns everyday moments of your life into pure magic. Some years ago, my sister walked in to find me laughing and singing to myself. She later said, “You really are your own best friend, aren’t you?”

Her words stuck with me as I came to realize the uncommon bond, I had created with myself. Later, in my life-coaching business, I started seeing the disconnect many of us are living in. We were led to think that putting our needs first is a selfish act. Today, you might feel guilt around self-indulgence and pleasure. Here is your invitation to rewrite those old beliefs.

When we tend to our needs, we fill our cups. When we say yes to our soul’s desires, we elevate into a state of overflow. From that point, we have plenty to give. We can easily pour energy into others, and when we do it from this place of abundance, it feeds us even more. As I led others on the path of self-discovery, a beautiful idea came forth. A love letter to oneself.

I created this empowering tool to help you spark that magical essence inside you. To connect with yourself on a deeper level and utilize that power to live abundantly

every day.

And this, my friend, is far more meaningful than you will find in the most exquisite heart- shaped box. Be present in celebrating this month of love. Savor the chocolates and buy the posies. Drink the bubbles, get frisky, and give extra- long hugs! knowing all the while that you hold the greatest gift within.

Set aside time for yourself to create a pleasant environment and enjoy using this template to self-discovery.

A LOVE LETTER TO ME

Dear________,

Write your name — saying and writing your name helps you identify with who you are.

I think you are:

Write some nice qualities about yourself—if you currently aren’t feeling it, write how you’d like to feel. Example: smart, talented, fun to be around, the sexiest human alive...

I appreciate you for:

Note some good things you do for yourself and others. Example: packing lunch for your kids, smiling at strangers, getting enough sleep, eating healthy foods...

I forgive you for:

This is a biggie, and it will help to clear you of negative energy. We have all done and said some shitty things. Take some time, write it out, and let it go.

I would love to see you:

What kind of achievements, goals, and ideas would you like to bring forth? Example: buying your dream house, starting a healthy lifestyle, opening a business, paying off debt...

I know you can accomplish these things because:

Write about the capabilities you know you possess deep inside. Example: strength, focus, determination, connection to a higher power...

I am committed to:

What is it that you need to consider a priority? Example: being more positive, saving/making money, laughing out loud often, asking for help...

My current desires are:

List what you want. Don’t worry about sounding crazy — this is between you and you! It’s time to be honest about what YOU want! Maybe it’s finding a great lover, quitting your job, or becoming a famous artist. Your imagination is infinite! Tap in and let it flow...

I am grateful for:

List everything you can think of here. There are so many wonderful things we sometimes take for granted, like fresh air, clean water, and waking up to see a new

day!

Now, write the following in your own handwriting and then place your hands over your heart and say it aloud. Repeat until you mean it!

I promise I will take loving care of you. I will listen to you. I will make you, my priority. You deserve all the best things in this life. I am proud of you. I believe in you. I love you.

Love,

[Your name]

Sign this with powerful intention!

I highly suggest you read this aloud to yourself daily, at least for the month of February. You will feed your subconscious mind, and by doing so, you’ll notice positive changes in yourself and thus in your life. These prompts will get your imagination and self-love flowing. Keep it going! Start a journal and fill it with excerpts from your heart.

I’m cheering for you!

Odessa Christiana is a mindset coach, artist, and creator of Rebel Unicorn, - a brand that’s obsessed with helping entrepreneurs bring their dreams to life. After twelve incredible years in California, she’s happily living, dreaming and creating in Tacoma, Washington. Connect and view her offerings at www.rebelunicorn.life.